Wednesday, September 29, 2010

"i think i should start punching women im interested in."




you know, ive noticed alot of women i know are doing stupid things with themselves. well, not stupid things, its actually legitimate RETARD SHIT. i mean why put up with the things you put up with? why are you in a relationship if you constantly complain about him? why put the bad boys up first and throw the gentlemen on the back burner for you to run to when things go south? hell even that wouldnt be a problem but what happens when we fix your problems??? then you run back to the asshole because you “love him.” GET REAL. the problem with you women today is your attracted to the people who have the capacity to hurt you the most. you mistake kindness for weakness, and any sort of compassion as feminine and friendly. if we throw rocks at your window you think of it as sweet and funny but wont pay it any mind, then homie throws a brick at your head and you fall in love. SERIOUSLY? what goes on in your head??? why the fuck are you with a man who verbally and physically abuses you? why are you with a man who doesnt even cover his tracks when hes cheating on you with your friends? WHY ARE YOU WITH A MAN WHO REFUSES TO GIVE YOU HIS ALL, WHEN YOUR “BESTIE” HAS LEGITIMATELY GIVEN YOU MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE POSSIBLY COULD? it honestly makes no sense. im so puzzled by this concept, ive actually openly asked for girls opinions on this. then they tell me oh your exaggerating bla bla bla etc etc. then i ask em wheres your boyfriend? most dont even know, then they call… no reply. they text… no answer. wanna know why? because the ratio of women to men in the united states is at least 3:1. its a fact, check out the census report. this means that if YOUR not currently fucking your man, theres a 50% chance that hes fucking the other 2/3rds of his little ratio. AND YOU LET IT ROCK. YOU TAKE THESE PIGS BACK BECAUSE YOU FEEL THE NEED TO FIX THEM. but in all honesty, men dont change. they are the way the are FOREVER. so ladies, please take this into consideration: if your boyfriend isnt giving you all you deserve, drop him like a rock. hes not worth your time or effort. second, if you have a single, straight, male “bestie”, chances are hes been deeply in love with you for a long time, and hes actually hurting to see you in a bad relationship. give him a chance, it might change your outlook on men. its not true that there are no more good men left, its just you have overlooked him, even though he’s been parading his interest in you for a loooooooong time.

if you read through this thinking “i hope this nigga aint talkin about me” then i probably am. this isnt about any 1 person i know in particular, but a culmination of quite a few of you. so if you read this feelin guilty, well then it must be about you. it is what it is.

and one more thing, im done waiting around for you to come to your senses. it honestly bothers me to the point of madness why you put up with him when most of the time hes putting a frown on your face, when all ive ever done is put a smile on it. Ciao, bella.


2 comments:

  1. My response:

    A guy posted that, then he answered explaining why he posted that then that's what I said lol

    Wow, that was extreme though... I mean, no wonder you were so extremely mad... I mean that kinda thing definitely not nearly happened to me, but I got almost everything that you said, specially about thinking we may be able to fix them. I think that, deep down, we feel extremely special (which is stupid, but I think that it might be this) when we have that feeling that that guy was like this and now he's like totally different, just because of YOU. And since we had to work so hard on them, you always have that feeling inside that he might go back to what he was before, so it's kinda like an adrenaline kinda feeling... you don't get bored because you're always expecting the worse. You don't trust your own guts to keep the guy, so every day you have to try and try, it just goes on and on forever. And it's so stupid, because, like you said, we throw all the good ones right out the window. And, even worse, we KNOW that they're the good ones. I mean, we often say "I should be with him", "he's good for me", your friends say the same... then you try... then it's like, ok, dude, you love me, now what do I do with that? I think we forgot what BEING loved means. I mean, just being loved, nothing else. That feeling of letting the guy love us, simply as that. I don't think women nowadays know what that is... it's always a competition with other girls, you're always expecting the worse, you're always trying to get hotter, prettier, so the guy won't leave you, and he keeps being an asshole, a jerk, having the same goddamn life he had before he was in a relationship... And we cry, and every time we're with friends we ALWAYS talk about the same bullshit, 'till the point we start laughing about it, kinda like suppressing it, so we won't feel so retarded... I mean, it's extremely childish, I don't know if we all have some abandon issue, or some dad issue, or whatever psychoanalytical issue that might be. But it's an issue. A serious one. And on the top of that, the world the way it is now DEFINITELY doesn't help. It just doesn't allow us to just be women. We have to be women, to work, to study, to workout, to diet, to buy clothes, to wax, it's all a wrack. And we still make less money than men and yet we lost our femininity. Shame.

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  2. My response:

    A guy posted that, then he answered explaining why he posted that then that's what I said lol

    Wow, that was extreme though... I mean, no wonder you were so extremely mad... I mean that kinda thing definitely not nearly happened to me, but I got almost everything that you said, specially about thinking we may be able to fix them. I think that, deep down, we feel extremely special (which is stupid, but I think that it might be this) when we have that feeling that that guy was like this and now he's like totally different, just because of YOU. And since we had to work so hard on them, you always have that feeling inside that he might go back to what he was before, so it's kinda like an adrenaline kinda feeling... you don't get bored because you're always expecting the worse. You don't trust your own guts to keep the guy, so every day you have to try and try, it just goes on and on forever. And it's so stupid, because, like you said, we throw all the good ones right out the window. And, even worse, we KNOW that they're the good ones. I mean, we often say "I should be with him", "he's good for me", your friends say the same... then you try... then it's like, ok, dude, you love me, now what do I do with that? I think we forgot what BEING loved means. I mean, just being loved, nothing else. That feeling of letting the guy love us, simply as that. I don't think women nowadays know what that is... it's always a competition with other girls, you're always expecting the worse, you're always trying to get hotter, prettier, so the guy won't leave you, and he keeps being an asshole, a jerk, having the same goddamn life he had before he was in a relationship... And we cry, and every time we're with friends we ALWAYS talk about the same bullshit, 'till the point we start laughing about it, kinda like suppressing it, so we won't feel so retarded... I mean, it's extremely childish, I don't know if we all have some abandon issue, or some dad issue, or whatever psychoanalytical issue that might be. But it's an issue. A serious one. And on the top of that, the world the way it is now DEFINITELY doesn't help. It just doesn't allow us to just be women. We have to be women, to work, to study, to workout, to diet, to buy clothes, to wax, it's all a wrack. And we still make less money than men and yet we lost our femininity. Shame.

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