tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566692676537601880.post4433295228585797896..comments2023-06-08T09:23:53.592-03:00Comments on Follow the White Rabbit.: "i think i should start punching women im interested in."Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04105602514856774012noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566692676537601880.post-61332187437949094912010-09-30T11:20:01.751-03:002010-09-30T11:20:01.751-03:00My response:
A guy posted that, then he answered ...My response:<br /><br />A guy posted that, then he answered explaining why he posted that then that's what I said lol<br /><br />Wow, that was extreme though... I mean, no wonder you were so extremely mad... I mean that kinda thing definitely not nearly happened to me, but I got almost everything that you said, specially about thinking we may be able to fix them. I think that, deep down, we feel extremely special (which is stupid, but I think that it might be this) when we have that feeling that that guy was like this and now he's like totally different, just because of YOU. And since we had to work so hard on them, you always have that feeling inside that he might go back to what he was before, so it's kinda like an adrenaline kinda feeling... you don't get bored because you're always expecting the worse. You don't trust your own guts to keep the guy, so every day you have to try and try, it just goes on and on forever. And it's so stupid, because, like you said, we throw all the good ones right out the window. And, even worse, we KNOW that they're the good ones. I mean, we often say "I should be with him", "he's good for me", your friends say the same... then you try... then it's like, ok, dude, you love me, now what do I do with that? I think we forgot what BEING loved means. I mean, just being loved, nothing else. That feeling of letting the guy love us, simply as that. I don't think women nowadays know what that is... it's always a competition with other girls, you're always expecting the worse, you're always trying to get hotter, prettier, so the guy won't leave you, and he keeps being an asshole, a jerk, having the same goddamn life he had before he was in a relationship... And we cry, and every time we're with friends we ALWAYS talk about the same bullshit, 'till the point we start laughing about it, kinda like suppressing it, so we won't feel so retarded... I mean, it's extremely childish, I don't know if we all have some abandon issue, or some dad issue, or whatever psychoanalytical issue that might be. But it's an issue. A serious one. And on the top of that, the world the way it is now DEFINITELY doesn't help. It just doesn't allow us to just be women. We have to be women, to work, to study, to workout, to diet, to buy clothes, to wax, it's all a wrack. And we still make less money than men and yet we lost our femininity. Shame.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04105602514856774012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566692676537601880.post-45360072911711447422010-09-30T11:19:37.409-03:002010-09-30T11:19:37.409-03:00My response:
A guy posted that, then he answered ...My response:<br /><br />A guy posted that, then he answered explaining why he posted that then that's what I said lol<br /><br />Wow, that was extreme though... I mean, no wonder you were so extremely mad... I mean that kinda thing definitely not nearly happened to me, but I got almost everything that you said, specially about thinking we may be able to fix them. I think that, deep down, we feel extremely special (which is stupid, but I think that it might be this) when we have that feeling that that guy was like this and now he's like totally different, just because of YOU. And since we had to work so hard on them, you always have that feeling inside that he might go back to what he was before, so it's kinda like an adrenaline kinda feeling... you don't get bored because you're always expecting the worse. You don't trust your own guts to keep the guy, so every day you have to try and try, it just goes on and on forever. And it's so stupid, because, like you said, we throw all the good ones right out the window. And, even worse, we KNOW that they're the good ones. I mean, we often say "I should be with him", "he's good for me", your friends say the same... then you try... then it's like, ok, dude, you love me, now what do I do with that? I think we forgot what BEING loved means. I mean, just being loved, nothing else. That feeling of letting the guy love us, simply as that. I don't think women nowadays know what that is... it's always a competition with other girls, you're always expecting the worse, you're always trying to get hotter, prettier, so the guy won't leave you, and he keeps being an asshole, a jerk, having the same goddamn life he had before he was in a relationship... And we cry, and every time we're with friends we ALWAYS talk about the same bullshit, 'till the point we start laughing about it, kinda like suppressing it, so we won't feel so retarded... I mean, it's extremely childish, I don't know if we all have some abandon issue, or some dad issue, or whatever psychoanalytical issue that might be. But it's an issue. A serious one. And on the top of that, the world the way it is now DEFINITELY doesn't help. It just doesn't allow us to just be women. We have to be women, to work, to study, to workout, to diet, to buy clothes, to wax, it's all a wrack. And we still make less money than men and yet we lost our femininity. Shame.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04105602514856774012noreply@blogger.com